So, What's Our Family Like?
Our family is some 33 years old now. We raised 5 sons which we
love dearly. Now, it was a challenge with just raising sons because
so much of the world has been adapted to a feminine frame of
thinking. Laura had to inform some of their teachers that they (our
sons) didn’t know or use female pronouns. Everything in our
house was all male.
As I got physically more ill, Laura picked up the slack with the
bills which created more of these male female sexism problems from
others looking in. I fought with being a second class person growing
up as a boy and now I couldn’t just bow my head and take it
again, could I, with my sons on the line? I couldn’t believe that
God made me to be inferior. However, I did learn that the true gift of white male privilege is
being forced to start with nothing yet being expected to win anyway.
The true privilege is having someone expect you to support them out of love. Any
male that loses this privilege loses the will to succeed in anything.
I started studying male and female roles and capabilities as God
taught.
11 Nevertheless neither is the man without the woman, neither the woman without the man, in the Lord.
12 For as the woman is of the man, even so is the man also by the woman; but all things of God.
I thought the wording on this was interesting as you can take theoretically two males and make a test-tube female but you can’t take two females and make a male. Males have both “X” and “Y” genes. Females only have “X” genes. Yet baby boys still have need for a mom.
At the conclusions of my study I found the following quick list of
average complimentary traits:
| Men | Women |
|---|---|
| Think in the “Future” tense | Think in the “Present” tense |
| Are emotionally stifled at around age five | Are encouraged to mature emotionally |
| Need to be taught “Self Discipline” in general | Need to be taught “Reverence” for self, others, and things |
| Are bridled by a natural EGO | Are bridled by social adeptness |
| Use a “Time Slicing” thought process | Use a “Multitasking” thought process |
| Can tolerate higher levels of stress | Can tolerate higher levels of pain |
| Run on “Dopamine” | Run on “Serotonin” |
| Lack subdermal fat and must burn calories for heat | Have subdermal fat to preserve energy stores |
| Have a higher ambient body pH to neutralize metabolic acids | Have a lower ambient body pH to absorb dietary minerals |
| Use nutrition for activity and healing | Use nutrition also for reproduction |
| Are governed by setting and following rules | Are governed by affection and empathy |
| Impact their present society | Impact their future society |
| Supply pheromones for female offspring’s development | Supply nutrition and incubation for gestation of offspring |
| Supply physical limits for male offspring’s development | Supply emotional attention to immediate needs and accomplishments |
| Seek to be worshiped | Seek to be cherished |
| His strength comes from the compassion of his character | Her strength comes from her willingness to bond and support |
| His unselfish humility and strength are his most attractive forces | Her unselfish modesty and intelligence are her most attractive forces |
All families must start with a family gate consisting of two people one physically male and one physically female. Learning the role we’ve been given of God, is the foundation of building a solid compassion for and joy with one another.
It takes a biological family to get us here to Earth and it’s
nice if it can persist. When it doesn’t we still have our homes
and hopefully loved ones and friends in which to rely.
We’ll include these and more family based topics in our
Family Tayloring Club:
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Family activities
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Family traditions
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Family accounting
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Family recipes
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Family businesses
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Family management
So, see you inside!